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Old 04-05-2006, 07:45 PM
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A study conducted by two Math Professors, Peter Sozou and Robert Seymour of the Center for Mathematics, University College of London was published this week in the Proceedings of The Royal Academy .

In their experiment they set up courtship as a sequential game and asked the question; What are the characteristics of a good courtship gift?

Their model was structured like this: The male offers a gift to a female; after observing the gift, the female decides whether or not to accept it; she then chooses whether or not to mate with the male. In one version of the game, based on human courtship, the female is uncertain about whether the male intends to stay or desert after mating. In a second version, there is no paternal care but the female is uncertain about the male's quality. The two versions of the game are shown to be mathematically equivalent.

Expensive investments during courtship does less to convince the woman of the man's long-term intentions and whether he'll stick around once there are kids.

Theoretical modeling put courtship as a sequential game, and concluded that an expensive night-on-the-town was a sounder investment than expensive jewelry, according to Sozou and Seymour.

So, Ladies, are these academics on target and which would impress you more about the guy? An expensive one time weekend trip to Paris or a big Diamond Rock?
Lets here it from our ladies, even retrospectively...
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Old 04-05-2006, 07:51 PM
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I suppose that a night out is alot more intimate and shows more caring than a piece of jewlry which is basically highly impersonal.
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Old 04-06-2006, 02:50 PM
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I don't agree. The nite out is a once off, a gift of jewelry can last a lifetime. To personalise it, it can be a birth stone or something that I've always wanted but never had the spare cash to buy.
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Old 04-07-2006, 07:02 AM
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I suppose that a night out is alot more intimate and shows more caring than a piece of jewlry which is basically highly impersonal.
I agree. But if the guy spent all his money on the diamond, that would be another matter.
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Old 04-12-2006, 05:41 PM
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I might be in the minority, but if it was early in the relationship, I wouldn't be impressed by expensive jewelry or a trip to Paris. I would think that the guy was showing off and rushing things. When I was dating my husband, we had a great time just going to the movies and eating at reasonably-priced restaurants. He didn't buy me flashy jewelry every week, which made it even more exciting when he proposed.
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Old 04-13-2006, 09:39 PM
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you r funny
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Old 04-13-2006, 10:01 PM
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i think it doesn't matter from where is a diamond ...it's a diamond thaaa :p
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Old 04-14-2006, 01:58 PM
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Default hi jewelbox
from where you got this article, can you send me the site address plz.
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Old 04-14-2006, 02:49 PM
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how can people think of such things
sudha:mad:
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Old 08-16-2006, 06:59 AM
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I have read the article and I have not seen anything related to the question in the end!
Well anyway I'll talk for the ladies! There many, the majority of them, that would prefer the big diamond rather than the intimate romantic trip, that is IF the guy asked the girl to choose between the two! Else if the guy just does one of the two then she certainly would have loved whatever HE had suggested.
All I want to say is that if she knew she had lost an opportunity to own a beauty diamond but missed it just to go out with her guy then she would certainly regret.
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